Friday, September 6, 2013

Communicating with Tact, Professionalism & Diplomacy

I attended a fantastic training on effective communications last week.  Below are the Top 3 Take-Aways from that session:

  1. It takes 20 minutes to get back "in the zone" after an interruption.  Those of you looking for an excuse to work from home, this fact is a good one!  I truly believe there are a number of positions where folks could work more effectively from home a couple days a week.  Programmers, for instance, could go to the office M/W/F to attend meetings, obtain requirements, perform testing, collaborate with the system users, etc.  Then on T/Th they could find a private closet in the house where phones don't ring, cell phones don't work and co-workers don't interrupt their creative flow and simply code. The speaker shared a story of a new CEO coming in to a company that was floundering. While a number of changes were made to save the organization, the change with the most profound effect was this, "Across the organization employees were not able to access their e-mail until 3 pm.  From 3:00 - 5:00 e-mails could be received and responded to. E-mails could be drafted and sent prior to that point, but with the exception of Customer Service, IT had configured the e-mail system to not receive until 3:00 pm."   I think this is a great idea. 

  1. It is impossible for your brain to focus on two tasks simultaneously. When you are talking to somebody or in a meeting, put the phone down!  If the person you are attempting to communicate with is focused on something else, as for their attention or schedule a better time to talk.  

    1. "Your brain just can’t take in and process two simultaneous, separate streams of information and encode them fully into short-term memory."  www.Forbes.com

3.      Treat communication as a two-way street.  If somebody is talking to you, acknowledge their statements. "Yes, I can do that," or even, "Duly noted," works.  Likewise, be sure to obtain an acknowledgement.  If you ask your son to take out the garbage while he's engrossed in a video game, be sure he at least gives you a thumbs up in acknowledgement of the chore.  Since the brain can't focus simultaneously on you and the game, odds are he just wrecked and can now take out the garbage!



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